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I love to talk and share my experiences. Writing is new to me but I am all for trying new things. Below you will find learnings, information I find valuable, and my philosophies on birth and other aspects of life. All writings are my own and not medical advice.

Top 10 gift ideas for new moms
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Top 10 gift ideas for new moms

Mama, you are strong, beautiful, and amazing. You deserve the best. Leave a comment and let me know what you would add to this list.

  1. Services- Postpartum support, house cleaning, massage therapy, salon appointment, etc. These gifts are invaluable and will be so appreciated. I’ve teamed up with Be Her Village which is a baby registry focused on what a mom wants and needs. It’s free to create a registry and all of the money gifted goes straight to the mom to be’s account.

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A runner’s mentality.
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A runner’s mentality.

I wasn’t always a runner. I discovered running in February of this year and began training for my first half in March with the mindset, “If I can give birth, I can do anything.” Anything might be a stretch but you are definitely capable of more. I trained for 9 weeks which is shorter than recommended and I thought I was crazy as I’m sure others did. When I told David I signed up to run a half, his response was, “We all make horrible life decisions once in awhile.” He really is the most patient and supportive person. He just has a unique way of showing it and adds humor to everything. I trained solo for most of my runs and it became therapeutic. I was a better mom, partner, and person on the days I ran. I changed my eating and water drinking habits because I wanted to feel good when I ran. I wasn’t concerned with pace but with how it made me feel. The experience was greater than the act itself. I completed my first half marathon on Mother’s Day. This day is joyful and it also carries a lot of heaviness but I’ll leave that for another story.

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The birth story that started it all.
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The birth story that started it all.

My 39 week appointment was scheduled for October 15th at 9:45am. I told David about a week before that we should put the hospital bags in the car and do a practice run the day of my appointment. I also mentioned how convenient it would be if she decided to make her arrival that day. The weekend before she was born, David and I took full advantage of the time we had left and went to a drag race about an hour away from our home. Was it the smartest decision to drive over 3 hours away from the hospital I planned to deliver at? Maybe not but we had a blast and made it home safely.

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